Understanding me

The other day I was curious about how people view me and if it is anywhere near close to how I view myself. I honestly don't care what people think about me, but nevertheless I wanted to compare my views to the views of others. I realize that people change consistently over time, so by no means do I expect this description to be accurate several years down the road.   

I am a very quiet person in public. I like to think and observe things, people, behaviors etc. In general I like to think a lot. That is why I am perfectly fine with being by myself from time to time. I am very much an introvert. That is not to say I don't enjoy going out with a bunch of people to have fun. Since I am a quiet person, I am not one to show my feelings to everyone. In fact, i require someone to know almost everything about me before I begin to open up about things. So even though I don't show it, I care a lot about people but nobody would ever guess that I do.

I also have a good sense of humor. It isn't until I feel comfortable with a group of people that I can start cracking jokes all the time. I'm also a hands on type of person. Even when I was young, I would love to help my dad out on projects around the house. I guess it has to do with how I love to be apart of things (as long as the activity is fun or helps produce great outcomes.  So don't be surprised if I don't participate in a silly get to know you game). 

I also try to avoid any embarrassing moments. It takes me having a lot of guts to get up and do something that could be potentially embarrassing (for example: dancing, singing, or games that requires you to make a fool of yourself in front of others). 

I am also very competitive. Not to the degree where I'll do anything to win, but I definitely care about whether or not I lose. 

What are things that I hate:

Unnecessary drama, people acting stupid based on the social norms and in general, hypocrites, people who can't give any reason behind their actions, egotistical people, people not replying back to me when I try talking to them (if you're busy just tell me and I'll understand), tomatoes, pickles, mustard, some fish, hot humid weather where you feel like you are swimming when you step outside, Lebron James, Kobe Bryant, and arguing. 

 

What are the things I enjoy the most?

Sports, Video Games, Music, Movies, Family, and Friends. 

I am a sports fanatic. Name almost any and every sport, I will guarantee you that I have some kind of love or interest for it. Now I can't play most of them, but I love to watch sports like crazy. In fact, ESPN is my favorite channel to watch. I also absolutely love bowling. (refer to one of my previous posts on how much I love it)

Video Games: I love them! Mostly Call of Duty and other shooting games, but I do find time to play sports games and others from time to time. 

Music: I listen to pretty much everything and anything. Music can calm me down when I'm upset, make me happy when I'm sad, and can help me get in the right mood for whatever I have to do for the day. 

Movies: Love action films the most. Gladiator, the Patriot, the Book of Eli, Inception, the Bourne movies, Lord of The Rings, Harry Potter, etc. Not really huge into chick flicks even though I can watch one from time to time. I HATE scary movies, they give me nightmares. I can handle some scary such as Signs, Shutter Island, the Sixth Sense, What Lies Beneath. Never ask me to watch movies like the Ring though. I also love a good comedy. 

Last but not least, I love being near those that I love the most. My friends and family hold a special place in my heart. They say that humans are "social beings" and that they need one another to survive. I couldn't agree with that anymore. I could not imagine my life without them. The experiences I go through with them help shape me to who I am today. That is why I find it extremely important to surround myself with the right people. So when I consider you one of my friends, do not take that for granted.  Because I am a person who has a select few people as friends. I prefer to have a small group of close friends than a large group of people who are somewhat my friends. 

Now by all means I am not a perfect person. I love who I am, I love trying new things, and I am very open to new ideas. If you have anything to add or you disagree with some of the things I said, let me know.  After all, sometimes the people around you know you better than you know yourself.