Saturday, June 18, 2011

Just like men, I don't understand women...

Everyone who knows me, I am more of a guy than a girl personality wise. I play video games, love sports, hate shopping, only own a few pairs of shoes, watch espn, etc.  I prefer to hang out with guys rather than girls, always have.  I don't know what it is, but I hate the drama and unnecessary things girls bring to the table.

But why do girls do the things they do?  Is it a desperate attempt to gain attention? There was a girl that stood up to talk in church 2 weeks ago and I was just shocked.  She went on about how much she loved trials and hard times. Now I appreciate trials and hard times because they help me grow, but I do not love them. But this was not the issue I had with her. She got up and faked cried in front of everyone, there were no tears and the whole time she was "crying" she was fixing her hair to make sure she looked "ok" in front of everyone. Now I am never the one to judge people right away, in fact I think this girl is a nice person. Later on I found out she was a theater major in college.  This explained a lot of her "act" in front of everyone, but geez I feel like her words had no real meaning with her whole act up there. The whole time this was happening, I thought "why can't this girl get up and say what she has to say without all the dramatics?" It is clear that the only reason why the girl stood up was because she wanted attention from everyone. Why do girls have to do this?

Another thing, I feel like a lot of girls are manipulative and will stab whoever in the back to get what they want. I hate this. I have only found a few girls that don't do this. This is why I only have a handful of girlfriends. Otherwise, I find friends in guys because they don't manipulate, they are more simple and not complicated like girls. I can relate to them more based on my interests.

I have had a girl stab me in the back because of a guy they wanted. She was purely looking out for her own interests and took advantage of a bad situation between me and someone else. I have also experienced how girls can ruin a guys life through manipulation.  One girl did this to a good friend and I have found that she almost ruined him by making him think that all women are like that.  He didn't want to trust women ever again...he didn't even trust me with just simple things.  I guess in conclusion, girls don't play nice. It is all about them and nobody else. Now I am not saying I am perfect. I just hope more women would just stop playing the games and care about others outside of themselves.

2 comments:

  1. Truer words have never been said! I can't stand it when girls say, "ya other girls do that but not me." From personal experience, you are generally the exception. A lot, you are def a girl sometimes ;)

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  2. haha thanks...i guess? I know I can be a girl from time to time, but not to the extent of most girls.

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